Relationships are a key area of the human life. We cant avoid it. An aspect of it is the one that exist between a man and a woman. Sometimes, it goes soar.
This article is geared towards reduction of the pain a lot of people feel when their partner uses the door.
Point 1: Crushes are absolutely not allowed. They only end up in disappointment. Besides, give yourself the liberty to see what else is out there. We’re still young and we’re still figuring out what we want. Why deal with heartbreak in the meanwhile? Crushes can end up restricting you anyways, especially if you’re crushing hard. So stop blowing him/her up with dozens of missed calls and take a hint already.
Point 2: Limit your sexual encounters. As much as possible, avoid sex and its associates during a relationship. It might be difficult but trust me, you will be glad you did if either ways... ending up together or ending up apart. If you break up, the pain will be limited when there was no sexual commitment to it.
Point 3: Keep your distance. Maintain a portion of YOU. In a relationship If you end up actually falling for someone, whatever you do, don’t fall too hard. If you’re going to fall, at least make sure the landing is soft by maximizing your emotional distance. The more "involved" you are, the more hurt you get. Likewise, the less involved you are, the less hurt you get.
Point 4: If you’re starting to get unduly jealous over him/her even when you know that you are yet to hit off any serious commitment, then its time to pull back. If you continue, you will get your fingers burnt especially if he/she doesn't feel same with you.
Point 5: Take a time out for yourself. Learn to love and appreciate your self. Celebrate yourself. Only when this is in place can you really care about another person in the real sense of the word. work on yourself to be a better man and woman. When you are in this process, you just might discover that he/she isn't worth all of those troubles.
Point 6: God has your blueprint. No one can understand a product better than its manufacturer. You were manufactured by God. YES You!!! So, stay in touch with him ALWAYS! He will gladly lead you the right way.
When all else is in place, you will just be perfect for the perfect special somebody.
It's well with you.
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