Reasons for Divorce.

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• Getting in for the wrong reasons. Ladies and even some guys are marrying for money. Yet some marry for looks. We've all heard that that's a ticket to a quick divorce, but what about when you marry because it's what you think you should do? Or you go ahead to marry because some people are doing it or perhaps you are been forced to. All these are for the very wrong reasons. This might just be strong enough reasons to lead to a high rate of divorce in our society. I've met many divorced ladies who say the problems that made them leave were there right from the beginning but "everyone expected us to live happily ever after" or "we had already spent so much money on the wedding" or "we had just built our dream home." So, remember, until you say "I do", you always have the choice to say "I don't!".No one should compel you to go against your will. It's your life here. Always have that in mind.

• Lack of individual identity. A codependent relationship is not healthy. When you don't have your own interests or the opportunity to express yourself outside of couple-dom, you become "couple dumb." If you are not comfortable doing things without your partner, or you don't know what kind of music, movies, or food you used to like, you are likely in deep and you probably feel like you are drowning and don't know why. Your individual identity is very important in keeping the spark up. Your unity is great but that unique person that you are shouldn't be lost.
•  Becoming lost in the roles. Just as many couples "forget" their single friends and single ways when they get married, when you add children into the mix, most parents soon neglect or completely forget that they are a couple. Their attention is now completely on their kids. Most women are more guilt of this and what we fail to understand is that these men are very jealous and I'm sure you don't want to put them in a position where they are now jealous of their own kids. So, learn to manage your kids as well as your husband. Make sure you give them the different attention they deserve. Your spouse is your first and primary assignment. Don't in any way neglect them.
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